“A Wonderful Idea To Spice Up Your Existing Relationships”
By Giuseppe Notte

        There is a cool little game for spicing up your long-term or fuck-buddy relationships.

Here's how you play:

        Both you and your girlfriend get 20 pieces of paper and make 20 different cards. Each card has one idea on it: You write down things you would like her to do, and she does the same with stuff she wants you to do.

        There are three categories of cards: sex, romance and adventure. (If you are doing this with a fuck-buddy, drop the latter two.) Each card is two-sided. On the outside is the name of the category. On the inside is what you would like the other person to do. It should look something like this:

Outside: Sex
Inside: Sex in the elevator

        Both of you make 10 sex cards and agree on how you want to split up the romance and adventure cards among the other 10. When you're finished, the fun begins.

        Each week, one of you chooses from the cards of the other person. The cards are put into a container, and you draw a random card. After drawing, you don't look inside right away. You see what category the card is in (sex, romance, adventure), and decide whether to keep it or not. If you choose to keep it, you have to fulfill whatever is written on the inside of the card. If you decide not to keep it, pick another card till you draw a card from a different category. Put the sex cards that you don't use back with the other cards.

        After a card is drawn, it's out of the game. The one-week period between draws can be shortened or extended. Before making the cards, agree with your partner on some rules. For example, she shouldn't expect you to take her on a vacation to Thailand, and you shouldn't expect her to jog down the street naked.

Here are a few examples for each category:

Sex:

Romance:

Adventure:

Note: I hope I don't have to say that you should only do most of these in a longer-term relationship, in which your partner trusts you totally! The only exception is a fuck-buddy relationship, in which case it depends on the girl and how adventurous she is.

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